Problems escalating

SanFran5lammer · 2019-07-22T05:22:08+00:00

If she's in your bed she's definitely interested, so the fact that this happens often means you're probably repeating similar mistakes, which can be easier to fix.

Be confident, turn her on. There really shouldn't be a hard line between making out and sex and that could be part of a mistake you're making. When I start making out with a girl you add in biting an ear, sucking on her neck, getting her to become physically invested. This should naturally lead into some sort of sex. If you do this well enough she'll be squirming with want.

Depending on the culture of where you are, asking before escalating is good. Something like, "can I take your bra/pants off?" It can be awkward, so you have to make that fun too and not overly forward. This can make the girl comfortable with escalating and then if she does want to stop at some point she can feel comfortable saying that instead of dipping entirely. I'm on the younger side so depending on your age this might not be the norm.

bebravebb2 · 2019-07-22T10:13:26+00:00

Sometimes it’s the kiss. I know, for me, if the guy is bad at kissing I’m not going any further. Idk if that helps.

FairAnalyst · 2019-07-22T12:33:14+00:00

Nah - its better to have the girl over at your place then not.

Try getting them horny by offering them a massage that's basically foreplay.

You get them on your bed, laying face down. See if you can get them to remove their top (most will). And start rubbing her shoulders, biting and kissing back of her neck. Rub down her back. If she's wearing a bra, ask her to unclasp it. Just rub, bite, and kiss down her body to her ass.

Once at her ass - skip it and go straight to the ass crease where it meets the thigh and if you follow it goes straight to the pussy. This is place is some weird kind of instant turn on button for a lot of girls. Like a girl will from kinda wet to moaning if your hands on her ass, and thumbs following that crease and follow it towards her pussy while applying pressure. Like don't stick your thumbs in her vag, just trace the edges.

If she's wearing pants/shorts, ask her to take it off (this move works through fucking jeans lol).

If a girl's unusually stubborn I might give a girl 2x of these but 1x has been enough for most girls.

Before I figured out this move, I used to get a lot of last minute resistances. Enough to try weird tactics like freeze outs (works sometimes interestingly). But then I moved on to trying to just get them horny and it worked better.

Title	Problems escalating
Author	Daniel1836
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	July 22, 2019 1:50 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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