7 Reasons You Get Nervous Around Hot Girls

gradcasanova · 2019-07-23T20:35:10+00:00

Here's the TL;DW:

I give you the most common reasons guys get nervous around hot girls, and how to fix each one.

Lack of control - heart beats fast, nervous jitters, sweaty palms, etc. All these enhance the nervous feeling. Instead, try to take a few deep breaths, calm the noise in your mind, and just start walking towards the girl (instead of overthinking)

Lack of reference experiences - If you haven’t talked to hot girls, it’s going to be nerve-wracking. Need to go up, start more conversations and get those reference experiences, and see that they can actually respond positively.

Fear of rejection - Guys see rejection as super scary and it makes them nervous. Instead, realize it's part of the game and even if you do everything right, you'll still sometimes get rejected, and that's okay. You can learn from those experiences and get better.

Fear of judgement - Scared of getting judged by the girl AND by the people around you. Realize that nobody cares. IF anything they’re just jealous. And if the girl judges you, that’s her loss

Putting her on a pedestal - Feeling like she's perfect just because she's hot. Instead, have that mindset that "okay, she's hot, but let's see if she's cool and if we click."

Worrying about the future - Get too wrapped up in possibility of it working out / dating her in future. Need to relax into the moment and detach yourself from the outcome. Focus on being present with the girl.

Not sure what to talk about - Not sure what to say to start the convo and keep it going. Instead, have a couple openers in mind and a basic conversation structure to lead things.

H8CourtshipALot217 · 2019-08-22T05:32:41+00:00

one thing for sure, a mans social-skills, conversation-skills, the way he talks, have a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or success with the other sex, more than the other way around, for guys, it seems its mostly behavioral-based

Title	7 Reasons You Get Nervous Around Hot Girls
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Date	July 23, 2019 8:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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