I’m a girl [F18]. I know this subreddit is meant for guys but I need some advice from dudes. It’s to do with my boyfriend...

WeakEmu8 · 2019-08-07T02:01:38+00:00

Maybe ask over in r/sex

eingebrannt · 2019-08-07T02:38:40+00:00

Some guys are brought up thinking that no woman ever wants to be touched until a consent form is signed, because media.

Anyways the best thing you can do is to just compliment him, make him feel better about himself. Compliment his hobbies, if he’s working out or does sports. Cuddle and lead, don’t go overboard by reenacting porn, but have fun with exploring each other’s bodies, maybe he’s uncomfortable or nervous about it. Do overact to “oh yah, I like it when...” “You’re so good at that...” etc.

Sheroclan · 2019-08-07T02:08:30+00:00

Probably not the right sub but I'll bite regardless

Maybe he's just got a low libido? I (23M) pretty much grab my girlfriends (21F) ass as often as I can. Pick her up/throw her on the bed, take her clothes off, etc etc.

With that said, I also have a libido that wants to fuck at (almost) every opportunity I have. Just depends on the dude.

jimmiepop · 2019-08-07T02:14:30+00:00

Sounds like you have a higher sex drive than BF. IME sex drive match is really important to having a sustainable relationship. He can step up, you can step out, or you can move on. Good luck!

gimmeadvicelmao · 2019-08-07T02:44:48+00:00

Have you made requests for him to do more specific things, or do you just talk about it? That’s great you talk about it — what does he normally say in response to what you want more of?

The-Wizard-of-Oz- · 2019-08-07T02:46:14+00:00

Robert Greene The Art of Seduction

balalasaurus · 2019-08-07T02:57:42+00:00

What are you doing besides talking to spark his interest?

Title	I’m a girl [F18]. I know this subreddit is meant for guys but I need some advice from dudes. It’s to do with my boyfriend...
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Date	August 7, 2019 1:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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