So I asked one of my close girl friends this question, basically asking on what her first impressions on me would be if she’d never met me. I like to think I’m a pretty attractive guy, not really any bad qualities, except for one that I guess a lot of girls notice. I’m kind of extremely closed about everything, and definity more on the introverted spectrum. I’m not shy at all, however I hate going to parties and would always rather hang out with a girl between just the two of us. Unfortunately it seems like I don’t get many chances with girls because I’m way too closed about things. I’m the exact opposite of a playboy and I’m not sure if that’s good or not.

I like talking to girls and I do quite often but I guess there’s something about me that they just don’t like, something about my introvertedness. I really don’t know how to change it. How do I become more open? It’s like asking to become an extrovert instead of an introvert. Do I just keep trying excersises or should I just accept my personality and hurt my chances with girls?

Here’s the advice I got from her: Image

Question that was cropped out was “would you date me, knowing nothing about me but just maybe having a glance”