My situation is.....not good especially as a super late bloomer. I'm 31 virgin, no active friends, and only locations I go to are the bar, strip club and the gym.

Another disadvantage is that I'm half deaf on one side of my head so it affects my ability to be social due to how awkward it can be to have a conversation when you may have to ask someone to repeat themselves and I can't always estimate my own voice volume during a conversation, as a result when I communicate I just try my best to hear what someone is saying and hope I respond properly and with the right volume. Honestly I think this issue is what hopes me back the most.

Having a experienced wingman or even wingwoman would be ideal for me but the reality is I don't know such people so I'm forced to go it alone.