Does an average looking guy have a better chance getting a hot girl via online or in public

2019-08-21T01:05:25+00:00

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2019-08-21T01:18:33+00:00

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KewlKid88 · 2019-08-21T02:49:18+00:00

Everyone has a better chance in public, it's more romantic, more exciting, shows courage and gives you the opportunity to become physical if appropriate. A girl on tinder can only judge you by your looks but a girl in real life can judge you as a whole person.

2019-08-21T04:18:43+00:00

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vickmasters · 2019-08-21T11:26:25+00:00

Do you even approach bro? You'd know the answer if you were out there taking action and comparing the 2 for yourself.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-08-21T16:28:13+00:00

Get a group of guys in a room, ask them who their 10s are, and they will not be able to come to a consensus. One man's 10 is another man's 7 or 6.

One man's 10 that he thinks is unapproachable, is a 6 or 7 to another guy who doesn't understand what the big deal is.

And girls are the same in their views on men. And here's the trick: you can't know what their tastes are based on how you rate them.

So part of the problem is that "average" and "hot" are subjective to each person and there's no way to know what someone's opinions are until you interact with them.

Too much of your premise here is based on thinking that most people will think you're "ugly." What's really happening is that you're going into social interactions with low confidence and people are going to be turned off by the low confidence and you'll never know how it would have gone before the interaction was tainted by your assumptions.

All this said, you have a better chance in person because that gives you more information to work with, whereas online interactions are lacking much of the nuance. Also, online interactions suffer because there are boom and bust periods due to recurring waves of desperate guys who send dick pics and/or open by asking for sex right off. Girls go away when that happens and everyone loses.

Title	Does an average looking guy have a better chance getting a hot girl via online or in public
Author	trev3795
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	August 21, 2019 1:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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