I feel that my mindset just isn’t in the right place right now. Haven’t been with anyone since my ex so like 4 months ago, just want a little fun. When I was a teenager, I used to be very fixated on meeting new girls and hooking up but as I got a little older I just focused on myself more, learned to be myself and whoever is going to like it will attract to me. While I think to a certain extent this is true, I feel like I need help putting myself out there better. I care a lot about my career, my side hustle, my improvement and my time with friends and I end up not going to places like clubs and bars or chatting up new women. What’s your mindset and what’s your balance?