Should you assume Tinder girls are for the most part DTF on the first date?

hunterpua · 2019-08-30T07:06:27+00:00

I never assume anything but I always escalate.

The girl, with her reactions, will show you how fast or slow you should be going or if you should stop going altogether.

Just escalate.

ybbodrettop · 2019-09-10T16:43:36+00:00

AFL-NOEL · 2019-08-30T04:51:26+00:00

I assume everyone is DTF on the first date.. some are some aren’t, but we are going down my escalation path until it ends up in my bed or she decides to get off the path.. I use Tinder like a bonus round of girls, with my preference always being in person approaches, but either way I’m going to go for the hang out/date as close to now as possible, as close to my place as possible (walking distance ideally) and escalate from there.. here’s some new day game from Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/KSvt-i6plgM

theosamabahama · 2019-08-30T16:34:59+00:00

Yes. I'm good a getting laid with dating apps. The girls always go to my place either on the first date or second date. The majority went on the first date. And I'm not that good looking either. I'm skinny, pale and have a delicate face.

What I do on the date is that I talk about sex in a very open and casual way. I don't treat sex as something taboo. I talk about the stuff I like in bed like I'm talking about my musical taste. I talk about my sex life, but without bragging. And I show that I'm very open minded and that I don't judge.

The girl usually responds talking about her own opinions and taste in sex, as well as some experiences they had. This strategy builds value and comfort. It's also a verbal form of escalation that turns the girl on.

I then follow that with physical escalation. That turns into a kiss, which turns into making out. Then I try to pull them to my place. Some girls refuse it at first, but they go to my place on the second date. There is not even a second date really, they just go to my place and we start to fuck.

Girls usually wait to have sex if they are not feeling comfortable yet and to not be seen as sluts (I imagine this is why some girls wait till the second date to fuck me). If you can talk about sex in a very open and casual way, you set the frame that sex is no big deal. When you do that, they follow that frame and they don't feel uncomfortable or afraid of being seen as sluts.

I've had girls tell me that they never do this and that I'm different. That things go so fast and smooth with me.

Well, it does, because I treat sex a no big deal.

Title	Should you assume Tinder girls are for the most part DTF on the first date?
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Date	August 30, 2019 4:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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