Girl was really feeling me when we first met in class, now slowing down?

Nazerd · 2019-09-04T08:03:14+00:00

You should ask her out ASAP. She's giving you strong signals and you're doing nothing with it. To her it means you're either not interested or too beta. Neither of these scenarios are appealing, hence her cooling down.

Man up, stop overthinking, ask her out, it's not a big deal.

Have fun!

bishop_larue · 2019-09-04T05:55:55+00:00

Maybe met another guy who is progressing the relationship. Maybe hooked up over the weekend at a party and is weening you off.

Relationship talk way too soon either way. You just met the girl, don’t do that so fast. That can make you seem kinda insecure.

Jokes are fine, slow down the texting. Slow down the attention. If it’s the first week and you are all in on her with attention, she may assume you don’t have much options.

Ask her out as soon as possible. Something casual on campus is a good idea. Hint about a party you know of this weekend if that is more your style.

ILovemigos1234 · 2019-09-04T23:15:04+00:00

LOL. You bottled it bro. C’man. You gotta be assertive. Why didn’t you ask her out in person? Do you want it to be a date? You gotta make your intentions clear my bro! Don’t be shy. Be confident and assertive. Maybe, go out for a drink as it’s a first date and you wanna get to know the person as opposed to sitting through a movie. You got this man! Trust me.

ILovemigos1234 · 2019-09-04T23:17:11+00:00

I say, ask her out on a “date” in person. If gives you the same response, move on bro. She’s not worth the time. There are plenty of women that would appreciate a stud like you. Never stick to one girl.

2019-09-04T08:29:05+00:00

With girl you always go as far as they let you. Until you were in her pants, you are never sure you will be in her pants. So escalate, find her limit, and when you find it, try to circumvent it. Until you find the hard limit, and that's when you call off the date... Next time you try again.

oceanarose · 2019-09-04T10:01:10+00:00

She could just be busy or having a bad day. Why are you reading into it so much?

KingRemu · 2019-09-04T12:10:37+00:00

Don't bring up any relationship stuff in conversation that early. In my opinion that's most likely the reason she became cold.

ILovemigos1234 · 2019-09-04T23:20:04+00:00

How old are you? Are you on social media? I’m asking because you said you don’t have any other girls to talk to. You gotta show these girls that you’re interested in, that you’re active out here in these streets bro. Go to bars, clubs, the mall and meet new girls. There’s so many out there. Never stick to one girl bro!

2019-09-04T23:21:11+00:00

No worries. You got this man!

Title	Girl was really feeling me when we first met in class, now slowing down?
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Upvotes	18
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Date	September 4, 2019 5:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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