Two girls just invited me and a friend to a bar. How should I approach in this stituation

rita_lines · 2019-09-06T00:19:43+00:00

Just go and see what happens. If you're asking this question you aren't going to be able to consciously "act right", it's not really a thing you can just turn on or off by someone telling you what to do. So just go and spend time with them and try to just be open and take in the experience.

smoothmax · 2019-09-06T01:34:05+00:00

If you're not comfortable being witty, funny and teasing then just be the cool, quiet guy who's happy being there, remembers the girls names and smiles whenever someone else is funny, or when the girls do something nice. Smile at them when they arrive, when they come back from the washroom etc. If you're more comfortable talking with your male friend that's ok, just breath every so often and smile and look at the girls like, sorry for being boring you're welcome to join in.

No girl minds a shy, quiet guy but they might not appreciate a guy who's try-hard as in, trying to be a seductive ladies man when he's not (yet).

julita414 · 2019-09-06T07:20:26+00:00

Don’t expect anything except a good time at the bar with some friends. It’s something to happen, you guys will see the signs. Personally, as a woman, I much prefer being treated like a person/ friend before being hit on, even if I am interested!

rita_lines · 2019-09-05T23:37:50+00:00

Bro I hope you’re not stuck with the 90 year old but maybe she would be easier to approach

Carebarehair · 2019-09-06T00:01:46+00:00

Ask them if they are Feminists - if they say yes then get them to buy you drinks too.

I'd be weary that the only reason they texted was to get free drinks and a ride home...

rita_lines · 2019-09-05T23:20:12+00:00

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Title	Two girls just invited me and a friend to a bar. How should I approach in this stituation
Author	rita_lines
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Comments	13
Date	September 5, 2019 11:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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