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If you want the woman of your dreams, be the man of hers.

Ember_To_Inferno

April 29, 2014
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Title If you want the woman of your dreams, be the man of hers.
Author

Ember_To_Inferno

Upvotes 10
Comments 9
Date April 29, 2014 6:40 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/24aqxe/if_you_want_the_woman_of_your_dreams_be_the_man/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/if-you-want-the-woman-of-your-dreams-be-the-man-of.14779
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[–]ThePacketSlinger4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

  1. Hit the gym - check
  2. Start your own business - not present, -25 points
  3. Ignore women, acquire currency - check
  4. Make fun of videogames - check

3/4 (75%) Circlejerk successful - You could do way better, though. Dig deep, man!

Haha, sorry, maybe I've just been here too long. Your title looked like this was going to be a really interesting post on the give and take of social and sexual dynamics, but you've basically summarized the top 10 comments of any given thread on the frontpage of /r/theredpill.

[–]Ember_To_Inferno[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man, I'm still relatively new to TRP. I may have been a bit enthusiastic. I've always done RP things like hit the gym religiously and I'm graduating soon with a solid job lined up, but the whole social/sexual dynamic concept was something I've always struggled with. Now that I've swallowed TRP, no more supplicating shit tests from women, no more oneitis. I feel like everything is clicking in place for me for the first time and I see everything clearly now.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

The reason men struggle with this is that on some level they intuitively understand that to hit the gym and make a shitload of money, things that require intense continued labor and effort, only to trade it all away to a woman who inherited her greatest 'achievement', beauty, is a bad deal for the guy.

What we need is a cultural revolution where men aren't so pitifully eager to give their resources to beautiful women.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You act like in being rich the hypergamy ends. If you're rich you've likely got rich friends and rich business associates. Are you going to keep your girl in a bubble? She will constantly have wealthy suitors all around her and she'll always be ready to use her beauty as a bargaining chip to make her life better.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

By the way, this whole "video-games-are-bad" thing is an ideology advanced by women who see that there is something else out there competing for your attention. Women don't like men who play video games because it's extremely difficult for a woman to manipulate a man and monopolize his time and attention if he's focused on something else. Ergo video-games are bad.

As long as you've got health and wealth taken care of, you can enjoy any hobby you want, don't let any bitches or any Red Pill nubs tell you otherwise.

[–]MarriedRP0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was geeking out playing a game on my phone a few nights ago, my wife started getting pissy and said "you'd rather play with your phone than pay attention to me." I told her "well try to be more interesting than a video game." She called me an asshole and stormed off to bed.

[–]Ember_To_Inferno[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hey I meant whether it be dating or hooking up. having money makes both a lot easier.

[–]b0ltzmann138e-230 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Treat others the way you want to be treated - not just women.

[–]naturalredpill0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't need to have all those attributes, just as many as you can put together. You can add others, like playing a musical instrument or developing a bit of a comedy routine. Sometimes I think humor is undervalued in red pill literature.

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