Hi sedditors,

So I met this woman in a concert, she was with a male friend of hers, I hesitated at first thinking he might be her BF, then spoke to her, chatted a bit and had a beer at the concert hall bar. The was a good connection between us but. She told me that she's going for an 4 months internship in another country on a another continent in 2 weeks, but she told me she was up to something in the meantime and even after she get's back. I wanted to kiss her that night but she said "I just came for music tonight" and she gave me her number instead saying we should meet again.

Before she left, We met again for a drink. we didn't make out since we went for an event after that and we were joined by one of her friends. That day she even suggested that I can come to see her for few days where she will be staying.

Then she left, we stayed on touch on whatsapp for maybe 2 weeks, she said we could meet when she comes back Then the conversation died out. We didn't speak for 3 month. The last message was mine and I didn't want to double text, especially someone I wouldn't be able to make plans with.

But in the meantime I was still gaming, I hit on many women and went out for few dates.

Now she's coming back in two weeks (at least according to the date of return she gave me few months ago). I honestly liked her but I am not sure how I should approach her again. I don't think making plans straight would be successful and at the same time, a bland "hey what's up" might not get a response. I'm also afraid I might come off as needy If I message her right when she comes back, as if I had nothing to do then wait for her.

Thanks!