Hey all, my city is pretty progressive, and even more so in my neighborhood. I'm trying to double down on being great with women so I find myself going out more often. I've noticed that if I'm out long enough in certain neighborhoods I'll be approached by a gay man wanting some fucc. I used to be annoyed by this (Wishing women would approach as often as men) but I can't do anything about it, so here's what I've noticed

  • The initial open doesn't matter, but at the same time it kinda does. When dudes approached me saying "Damn, you SEXY" it often makes me uncomfortable. However I do appreciate the fowardness because they're showing clear intent from the start.

I went out tonight and got approached by this small chubby man who seemed like he was being friendly. After navigating through the annoying interview questions I got hit with the classic line "Can I make you nut?" To which I bursted into laughter

  • Find something funny in every interaction. Whether it's a girl at the club calling you a poo poo head , or some dude that you thought was just being cool until he hits you with the lemme swallow your nut bro. All this shit is funny, don't take it to seriously when you're going out guys. Make your intent clear when you open , calibrate, and if it doesn't go well just laugh it off