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[–]ntipz011 6 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't know how you managed to plow through it for 7years if success is not there.
On the other hand, if you tried so long and success is still not there it's for a reason. Any idea what might hold you back?
[–]FinancialFister 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
All I really want is to start a family. Maybe looking for that in a club isn’t ideal.
[–]DanJDare 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No shit, how did it take you 7 years to work this out?!
[–]Got_A_Lil_Preference 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that's so insane it believe it to be lieeessssa
[–]thatboythough 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you tried daygame? Almost no competition
[–]FinancialFister 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
What’s your advice on day game? How to get started, routine, etc.
[–]thatboythough1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The benefits of daygame are that you can do it anytime and anywhere when you see a cute girl. There is also virtually no competition because no one does daygame. At a club everyone is trying to get coupled up so unless you are skilled it is difficult.
Keep in mind though in daygame you will still get rejected a lot but this opens up more oppurtunities to approach. You do not need to invest time and money to approach. See a cute girl at a mall or target, go talk to her.
There are many ways you can go about it. You can do situational and indirect openers or you can open direct. IMO it cuts the bs to open honestly. "Hello, I saw you and thought you were cute and had to introduce myself. Hi, my name is..." and if they don't just blow you off instantly you can continue the conversation and flirt or just have a good convo about anything. At the end make sure to close "we should get coffee sometime together" and if she is down ask for her number. This is a brief description and you can do more research and watch infields on your own.
Rejection is normal and not personal. Some girls are busy in middle of the day or they are in a bad mood or have bf. But a lot of girls are open and nice. Nightgame brings out certain personality traits in girls that they do not normally have in middle of the day.
Try this but you do not need to overinvest in it. If you still have low success rate (most people have low success rate but a few successes in a decade is very low), then maybe you are doing something wrong in game. Work out, develope confidence, get a sense of fashion, study game and experiment with various strategies.
Most importantly, HAVE FUN! Have fun talking to girls dont make it a stressful chore. Go out with friends and have fun and when you see some cute girls talk to them and have fun with them. If they are not interested then it is their loss.
[–]angry_african 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have you tried at all to changing your approach? Or have you been doing the same thing for 7-8 years.
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