Going through a divorce (10 year relationship, 6 years married) and was pleasantly surprised when a childhood friend reached out to me this past weekend. Growing up, I always had a crush on her but considered her out of my league. She was a few inches taller, model level looks, and just an all around badass. She had been married but was in the process of divorcing her wife. She also hadn't been with a man in almost a decade.

Turns out our moms (friends for years) were talking about our situations and her mom recommended she reach out to me. We hit it off instantly and loved catching up after years of not talking. It didn't take long before we were planning to hang out. Next thing I know, she came by the very next day (this past Monday).

I forgot how stunning she was in person, and my old crush on her quickly returned. I knew she had been a lesbian for years so I tried my hardest not to let the sexual side of my thoughts take over. Between that and being a few inches shorter, it was the perfect recipe to feel inadequate...if I let it. So I shut that part down and just reminded myself I am confident in myself, what I bring to the table, and what I'm capable of.

When she walked in, she instantly sat down in front the door and played with my dog. We ended up sitting a foot from the doorway for 30 minutes catching up and laughing. I made a comment that there was much more of the house we hadn't seen yet.

When we stood up, I realized the height difference again. I am used to women around 5 ft - 5'2 so someone almost 6 ft tall was out of my norm. But I stayed confident and playful. I showed her some of my recent artwork, shared some other passions and hobbies with her, then offered up a little massage (we had talked about my massage skills the night before).

She was blown away and said she'd never had anyone rub her down like that. I looked her in the eye and said "If you think that is good, just imagine the sex."

It was a bold move, but it worked. She pulled me in and we started making out. Lying down, we are all the same height right? 🤣

Suddenly we had a change of scenery again and we are in my bedroom. What followed was multiple rounds of some of the hottest sex I have ever experienced. Legggggssssss for days, insane body, and dripping with pleasure. I made her squirt for the first time in her life and she just laughed hysterically that I had "just opened the floodgates." Everything felt like a dream.

And Everytime I felt the urge to make a comment about height, I shut myself up before my lips spoke. It became clear that height was irrelevant. We just clicked.

The next day, she came over as soon as I finished teaching and dove back into another multi-round sex fest that was out of this world.

All day today, she has been teasing me with nudes and opening up about how great the connection is. She said she's never met any man so confident in themselves while also so humble, caring, and giving. We agreed that there is no sense in rushing things but this is just a taste of one of her messages...

I have to say... Being with you is seriously a huge sigh of relief and highly unexpected... I love hanging out with you and talking with you.. I love the way you kiss me, touch me, lick me, and fuck me... I love that there's no pressure and I feel like it's just chill between us and we aren't going too deep too fast..ya know? I feel so comfortable with you...

TL:DR - Don't let height scare you, let your confidence propel you. You may just surprise yourself.