On being attractive

LivingUnplugged · 2015-04-16T00:48:33+00:00

The number one thing that girls find attractive is a man with a strong and confident frame. A man who knows his view of the world, knows what he wants, and who goes about getting it.

Actually, the number one thing that girls find attractive is the feelings they get when they are around a guy. Men with confident and strong frames often intrigue them and excite them, challenge them and surprise them. Men with strong and confident frames have some idea about what makes life good and worth living, and go about pursuing it. Women want some of those goods, and so they try to be around those men.

fakeAk · 2015-04-15T23:43:47+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32gcqe/so_youre_a_boring_fuck_how_to_become_interesting/

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32kfd1/so_youre_a_boring_fuck_how_to_become_interesting/

TheGillos · 2015-04-16T02:27:06+00:00

Charisma. It can be learned but likely those ugly smelly guys have it naturally. If you dress well and have a good body less is more if you're lacking social skills. Say very little, ask a few easy, open ended questions, and have an airtight frame.

ShadyMiIkman · 2015-04-16T16:23:31+00:00

You really can't fix ugly. You can get in good shape, yes. You can dress nicely, yes. You can do a lot of things to make up for being unattractive, but at the end of the day, ugly is ugly.

herpes_delivery_man · 2015-04-16T00:16:18+00:00

Masculine personality

[deleted] · 2015-04-16T22:57:13+00:00

I have a friend who is 6'7" Adonis looking mother fucker, Lean, fit, Muscular.... BUT that's ALL he is.

When he was in his early 20s i tried to help him grow a personality, how to talk organically. He is just a plain dud. When I first met him I was envious of his size, his looks, his muscles, everything. I was even jealous of the girls he pulled.

However, over time he lost his own luster... He remained exactly the same but once I saw how dumb he was and boring he was, even as a friend. I, as a hetero dude bumped down his SMV. I don't see him as any threat...

As a matter of fact if we go out ill blow smoke up his ass to open and he'll eventually ruin it and put me in a good light.

Dont feel sorry for him i tried to help him, but he literally expects to walk into a room or a bar and girls just automatically throw themselves at him. He literally expects this. If he had any shred of personality, that may have been the case. He is so wrapped up in this NOT happening he shuts down and is pissed.

Honestly, it's his own fault, his personality that makes him ugly...

He always wanted to go to this one bar because he gets lucky there. What happens is this bar is a bit of higher society. this is where single mothers, divorcees, it's complicated 30 somethings walking around having shat out 1, 2 or 3 fuck trophies already looking to get blasted by the first dude they see.

They usually initiate, do all the work, and take him home, but i had no interest in that category of women, soooooo. he can have it lol.

It really depends on alot of factors... This is an example of a guy who can really have it all, where being funny, charismatic, being able to pass shit tests, engaging, etc hold alot of verifiable weight. As far as the world is concerned, if he just shuts the fuck up.... those things are assumed about him....he can open just shutting up women approach him all the time, but as soon as he opens his mouth he ruins it all in god knows what way.

Title	On being attractive
Author	Espada18
Upvotes	9
Comments	12
Date	April 15, 2015 11:39 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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