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Switching from "competitive frame" to "Us in a sexual way frame"

gameandrsd · 2019-10-02T15:05:50+00:00

Hi guys, I would like to know your techniques on this one, simply the case where you are negging her, she's negging you back there is a lot of teasing...

gameandrsd

October 2, 2019

8 upvotes

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Title	Switching from "competitive frame" to "Us in a sexual way frame"
Author	gameandrsd
Upvotes	8
Comments	4
Date	October 2, 2019 3:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dcbggw/switching_from_competitive_frame_to_us_in_a/
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[–]smoothmax 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Lance Mason talks about this in his old Pickup 101 courses. He said he used to get into extended banter battles because they were fun, but eventually realized they were counterproductive for building rapport, getting dates etc.

So he said whenever the banter looked to be going on past just one or two lines he would simply change the subject and go into normal rapport mode. Something like this:

HIM: "Hey what do think of these shoes - oh wait a minute are you a Republican?"

HER: "Yeah, what are you a socialist?"

HIM: "Hi I'm Lance. Are you out with your girlfriends tonight?"

Thereafter any signs of feisty behavior by the girl he would dismiss it with the frame "Aw that's cute" or agree and amplify to turn it into a joke. Such as (in an exaggerated girly voice), "Go Away! I'm talking to my friends!" and then say something like, "C'mon I've been blown out 'way better than that,. Next time put your hands on your hips and stamp your foot, like this: Go Away!" Basically to get her or her friends laughing.

[–]gameandrsd[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

His point is, to not let it build to the point where you are defined to her as The Teasing Guy, and if it looks to be heading that way to shut it down. That way, it won't seem like a surprise to the girl when this guy with a teasing, comedian persona is suddenly asking her for a date.

He considers learning how to banter to be an important step in getting good with women, followed by learning how to dial it back and keep the main focus on normal conversation leading to vibing, rapport and dating.

It isn't easy because, if it was then everybody would be good with women. It's funny to watch his students being given the simplest banter lines and falling flat on their faces flubbing the delivery.

He has 4 old school but valuable courses out there that AFAIK only exist as torrents: Fearless First Approaches, Physical Confidence, Charismatic Conversations and Spycam Seductions.