Confused by slow responses

axe122 · 2019-10-03T06:56:38+00:00

As for the hour between texting is not a long time. The proper way to text is if she’s takin an hour you wait an hour but every now and then you break mold and give her the opportunity to text back and forth. So you give what she’s giving an hour and maybe every 3 to 5 messages try responding in a shorter time and get her to match your time. You have to be the leader but also not just give her all your time and attention it’s a fine line to walk I know lol.

energra · 2019-10-03T03:09:33+00:00

If she’s consistently taking an hour or more to respond to your text. Stop texting her,and if you do text her at least match her reply time. If she takes an hour you take 2 hours.

wawakaka · 2019-10-03T05:18:49+00:00

just set up a coffee date or something to go see her.

if you text too much you will lose mystery. the less she knows about you the better.

also don't cling to her text like a desperate kid. be chill about it.

axe122 · 2019-10-03T14:26:43+00:00

I think I wrote them responses to what I thought was a different post tbh but an hour between isn’t a very long text time. The trick i found is match her text time and every 315 texts try and break the routine of an hour and shorten the text difference getting her to match your time until yous are freely texting. You don’t wanna hung up on texting, you can’t seduce or or start a romantic relationship on the phone. I would just call her and ask her when she’s free for a date and set the date. You ask her to pick the day, you pick the time and place, if she says maybe tell her okay let’s just reschedule for when you have more free time if she says okay and doesn’t give a new date to reschedule she’s not very interested wait a week a full week no text or calls and try again. If she says anything like I can lock that date in or I’ll change other things she was testing you and giving herself a way out, she has a high flake probability but not she’ll most likely show up. Let me know how it goes. Good luck.

axe122 · 2019-10-03T06:54:07+00:00

Listen when I read your post I was like damn this guy was doing things right until you wrote about how you’d discussed if it was a 1 time thing and You told her you liked her. That was it right there 100% and then you told her again when she was acting flakey instead of playing it more indifferent that’s when she gave you the let’s just be friends talk. Before that she was iffy cuz you told her you liked her in the car and wanted to see her again whatever, then you were asking her for dates keeping texting to a minimum is very good but you were probly letting her change the plans and give you wish washy maybe dates. Never agree to a maybe date cuz they will flake 99% of the time unless they have absolutely nothing better to do and are bored or really horny. Then you told her you really liked her and if she doesn’t wanna see you again let you know she then was like this guy is super needy and I’m friendzoning him. I know it’s sucks you can’t even tell a girl you like her but you can’t unless she tells you she likes you first and even then I’ll joke with them and be like “yeah I know you do, your alright.... ;)” kinda like she knows I like I like her already but she’s gotta earn me telling her that and work for it. It actually becomes a game for them when they can give you easy to pass verbal tests and you answer them in a super confident way I had a girl would do it through every date multiple times, I think she enjoyed being with a guy and feeling my strength and dominance cuz she wasn’t making them challenging at all she was like giving me alleyoops, she was tossing them at me so I could dunk them.

Title	Confused by slow responses
Author	Assmonkey17
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	October 3, 2019 1:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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