Good day, gentlemen.

I came here seeking for advice. I am recovering-beta, trying to become the best version of myself.

There is this girl. We met at a party, ended up working at the same place. Months later, became friends ( beta me was super fine with it ). After quite some time, even after showing lots of signs of affection ( back then I had a problem with the fact that she was in relationship ) she made her move. We kissed at her workplace, she was on top of me. But that's where I failed miserably. I declined going any further. The problem was - I had a terribly deep oneitis. This experience made her cut contact with me for months, where ( as she says ) she tried to recover from the crush on me. I quit the job in the summer and we somehow restored our contact. To cut it short, somewhere about November, when I found TRP, I was naive enough to try to plate her. That didn't go as well as I thought it would. Main reason - she's in a relationship. Little contact after that, self improvement, recently she appeared once again and is giving me mixed signals. Any advice on what and how to do will be greatly appreciated. Here are some of the last conversations we had:

HER: Let's meet now

ME: Now?

HER: Yes

Me: Can't

HER: Why?

ME: I just can't

HER: When will you be at [part of the city]?

ME: You want to come?

HER: I am there already

ME: Guess I'll be there in an hour, what's up?

HER: You agree or not? Or should I just go home?

ME: Agree on what?

HER: To meet up!

ME: Why?

HER: Or should I go home?

HER: Oh, okay. Leaving

then at like 11 pm she messages me again

HER: What if I come now?

ME: Why?

HER: No reason

ME: No reason? I'd rather go to sleep

HER: Go to sleep then. Your choice

( a week later, we arranged a meet up)

HER: Hey, everything remains in tact?

HER: Huh?

ME: Why wouldn't it be, obviously

ME: You can come to [part of the city] and check out my dog

HER: What time?

ME: I'll be home at 2

she doesn't answer for HOURS. the old beta me would panic and bombard her with messages. This time, though, I laid back, did my own thing, and waited.

HER: B8or!!! I came home and fell asleep, am so sorry! Why didn't you call me or wrote to me? I would have woken up... Anyways, I'm on my way

ME: How are you getting here?

HER: Bus nr. 10

HER: It will take me to [part of the city], right?

ME: (name the bus station)

HER: When should I call you?

HER: Is there a book shop nearby? I really need to buy x book.

ME: Haven't seen one. Call me when you're at [ bus station ]

... we meet up, and I already know that this is a test for me. A test of how have I improved. This time, I'm in the lead. I tell her where we're going. I don't follow. Finally we grab a coffee and start talking. I know this is a small step, but still important one for me - I held eye contact like a beast. I always had a problem with that. Never could I focus on holding the eye contact and on the conversation itself. I held my frame, I felt great. I could see it in her eyes that she liked the changes in the atmosphere. Now here comes the part where I get confused.

~ She keeps on saying how beautiful I am.

~ She's spoken of dreaming about me ( multiple times )

~ She had asked me to come with her to her friends parties. (multiple times )

~ Yesterday she went as far as saying that I'm the most beautiful guy she knows and that she brags about it to her friends ( keep in mind, before saying that, she said the following: "don't think that I'm trying to flirt with you, I am just saying that"

~She has a boyfriend, that tried to dump her twice, but was too big of a pussy to make it happen, apologizing and begging her to stay. ( he says she just isn't the one for him )

~ She told me that she secretly wants for the third time to happen so that she could leave him for good. ( her excuse to staying with him is as redundant as it can be - "It's the last month at the school and I can't be sad at the moment and I know I won't be able to deal with the break up and do good at school at the same time")

~We spoke about attraction today and she said that she is indeed interested in me, but, as she says, " the question is, am I ready to act on the attraction "

~She's still butthurt about the time when I refused to go any further than kissing.

~She acts jealous when I mention any other female being.

Now today we had a chat, and the end of the conversation is like this:

HER: So... were you able to determine who I am to you?

( I didn't want to answer to this lame shit test and just left it open for a few hours )

ME: No

HER: Got it

( no answer, again, 10 hours later)

HER: What are you doing? :)

So my question is: Am I in the deepest level of a friendzone, or is she actually interested? And if she is, what should my further actions be? Should I ask her to leave her skinny ass of a boyfriend, or should I just wait until he tries to dump her for the third time? Any advice on that?