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What if she mentions another awesome guy?

Shorty_PUA · 2019-10-07T04:29:32+00:00

There are a couple of things she's communicating by mentioning another awesome guy. She's essentially qualifying herself by talking about how...

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October 7, 2019

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Title	What if she mentions another awesome guy?
Author	Shorty_PUA
Upvotes	3
Comments	19
Date	October 7, 2019 4:29 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/deelej/what_if_she_mentions_another_awesome_guy/
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[–]Shorty_PUA[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I've had this long ago. I believe it stems from a fear of competition.

The way to get out of this mentality is to reframe your mind and start understanding the reality of a hot girl's everyday life.

Reframing your mind

Keep these thoughts close to your mind at all times. It is a privilege to hang out with you. You are always adding positivity into other people's lives. You are always the best potential partner for women.
If you're the best potential partner, you shouldn't need to worry about competition seeing as you're better and will always. When a girl is with you, she's only thinking of you. When she's not with you, she wishes she was.
The vast majority of other guys don't know anything about game. They function on instinct and, as we men who understand game know from first hand experience, instinct isn't good enough. So try to think of these other guys as desperate and only being led on and think of this girl as if she only has eyes for you. These guys just compliment her and beg her for dates but you're interesting because of the fact you know game.

The everyday life of the hot woman

She gets hit on all the time. You need to seperate yourself from the other guys. You do this through game.
She has a lot of options, but very few good ones. Remember, almost nobody uses game. You have the upper hand. These other guys are toys she uses to make her feel good mentally because she needs her ego stroked. She does so because, let's face it, it's great to feel needed/desired. Everyone wants to feel like that, even you. You're not going to give that feeling to her, however.

Best thing to do is to understand that everyone keeps their options open. But once you've built enough positive momentum you shouldn't get this feeling anymore. With so much positive momentum you won't even think about her texting other guys because you'll know she's so into you. Of course you have to truly believe that you're the best or this won't work.

Any more questions? Keep em' coming.

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[–]axe122 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I would personally answer this like “ah that’s cool, so why aren’t you with him now” cuz your hear with me (in a joking but slightly cocky tone almost saying if not directly saying you know you like me) so let’s just have fun and kiss her” I’ve done this multiple times has always worked great it’s very congruent with my personality so if you start just acting like this and flipping it on them they might test you again .if you notice I don’t compare myself to the other guy I just acknowledge it and make it like hey your here with me so let’s have fun.kiss me. Has worked multiple times with really hot women. This works for me cause it’s very congruent to my personality and how I act around a girl I’m with. I always like to just face their shot test head on and flip it. I did like the way way you flipped it into a joke in your one description if I remember to do that when the next shit test come I’m gonna try it out see you hat kinda response I get. I’m always looking to learn and try new things was why I shared how I’ve been handling mine for a while now.

It looks like it follows number 3.

[–]Shorty_PUA[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

On a surface level, your cocky response sounds awesome. However, it leaves you vulnerable to a couple of things.

"Why aren't you with him now?"
- "Well he was busy today and you weren't." (This is just another classic shit test but instead of responding to her mentioning the other guy with an agree/exaggerate/ignore type answer you push it back another sentence. It's much less efficient and you're asking her to validate you by telling you why she's choosing to spend time with you. It should always be assumed that you're better than this other guy. You know why she picked you. Therefore the question doesn't need asking.)
The way you frame the interaction makes it seem as if you're chasing them for the kiss. I personally always try to frame it as if they're the ones seducing me, not you them. This is a little bit more nuanced a concept.

On the other hand, your line does deliver an interesting and playful message but I believe there could be better ways to present it especially if you change it to follow a statement mentality.

If you've got questions, let me know.

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[–]Shorty_PUA[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The agreement path shows the least amount of investment and it's really simple. It also easily enables you to get back to whatever you actually want to talk about.

The exaggeration path is used when I want some self amusement. It involves not taking yourself seriously at all and can express your personality really well through jokes if you don't have any filters. Also it's a fantastic way to disqualify yourself to her.

I ignore a shit test sparingly. I find the above two paths to be my favorites because it flows so much better. I normally only ignore a shit test if it's through text. Here's an example; M = Me & G = Woman

M - I'm going shopping this Saturday. I'll let you tag along if you promise to behave.

G - Sure! Coz you need serious fashion advice

M - Let's meet at noon at (insert location here)

I suppose I don't have a favorite method of countering shit tests. Each of them have their merits. I'm still experimenting to see if a specific one is better to use in a specific scenario but as of now it's pretty inconclusive.

If you have any more questions, PM me. We'll connect through other means and I'll give you a full consultation.

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