Honestly right now I’m trying to figure out if I should have women in my life at all. I recently just starting talking to this one girl at uni. We spent a couple of nights together just making out and cuddling. But now I’ve realized I’m not attracted to her. I see her as a teddy bear who is adorable and innocent, not a girl I’m yearning for sexually at all. I want to have the balls to tell her that I don’t think of her that way, but I don’t know if I could take the disappointment on her face. Any tips on that one?

The reason why I feel like I’m an asshole is because I know if I don’t do anything, I’m going to lead her on. My mental toughness is weak and honestly almost being 22, I still feel like a boy with this stuff and life in general. I right now just don’t know if I should have women in my life at all. I’m very lonely at the moment but I’m content with myself. I just in the past few recent months have come to love myself. Fitness has helped me be almost 100% comfortable in my own skin and has shown me some light on certain aspects in life. I actually have been grinding in the gym hardcore for the past 2 years and now have shape. I’m not ripped but pretty hard and toned. the IOIs I think I’ve gotten are either from my confidence or body but I can’t tell. I just don’t know what to do anymore, it almost feels like I’m not me anymore. When I look in the mirror sometimes, I don’t even think that’s me anymore, it’s bizarre.