Not oneitis but...

PsPPHYCO · 2019-10-15T03:53:31+00:00

Get out of the frame that 'She is prim and proper' and by speaking to multiple girls you're somehow being a womanizer. She is a female which means that at any given point in time she is receiving attention from the opposite sex from multiple guys. The simple fact that you're subconsciously assuming you're the only guy she's speaking to is the cause for your unwarranted guilt. It's absolutely fine and you shouldn't feel bad about it by any means.

ntipz011 · 2019-10-15T03:50:31+00:00

Girls are getting pursued by multiple guys at once so get over it.

You probably feel that way because of the way you were raised in your family and conditioned by society.

So get over it. And go get what you want. You don't owe anything to anyone and do not have to justify your actions or things you want.

Find ways to get what you want without putting yourself in a worse situation and stay out of jail as much as possible. Life is what you make it.

mydogfartzwithz · 2019-10-15T04:07:07+00:00

i mean some guys aren’t massive players and still get laid because girls like him for who he is. some guys just want to have fun and certain girls hate that so the guys hit on multiple girls at once mostly the party girls and they the guys get laid. so doing what you love will attract similar girls. doesn’t matter

Pretty-Robot · 2019-10-15T04:11:12+00:00

Until you have the, “Exclusive talk” with one woman, you should definitely be dating more than one woman at a time.

Ettienenumberfive · 2019-10-15T08:28:05+00:00

I’m a bit like this too, I just prefer to form a connection with someone even if it’s for something casual, and if You’re doing that with multiple girls at the same time not only is it time consuming but it also undermines that feeling of connection in the first place or even challenges your attitude towards human connection itself.

Dont do anything you don’t enjoy, there is literally nothing to be gained from sleeping with heaps of women. If you want to focus on one, focus on one, yes it might prolong how long it takes to get what you want but the reward will be you actually feel happy in yourself. It’s also much better sex.

Title	Not oneitis but...
Author	zuzumbra123
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	October 15, 2019 3:45 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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