Hello everyone.

I just turned 25 and dating is still very new to me, i never really had a relationship with a girl and sex only a couple of times... Hope you guys can share your thoughts on how I can turn things around!

So let's start at the beginning..

I really don't know why I have never had a girlfriend. Most guys seemingly get interested into girls and sex in their late teens.. But I can't really say that girls were my #1 priority at any time in my life... I always had a lot of other interests and hobbies that consumed all my time, so I never really missed anything, and that is still somewhat true.

About me:

I am pretty sure I have high-functioning autism (ASD) since social skills and communication aren't really a strength of mine. I dislike small talk, don't seek validation from others, have low empathy, have trouble reading the intentions of others, etc. In case it helps, I have tested a few times as INTP in the Myer-Briggs personality test and this description is scarily accurate: https://www.16personalities.com/articles/strategies-confident-individualism

I don't really use social media and have a small social circle. I have never had any female friends really, just guys, with very few exceptions.

I am pretty sure my looks are not the problem. I have a masculine face, naturally athletic body, good hair, and ideal height. I have been called handsome by girls and strangers and it's not rare that I catch even good-looking girls staring at me when I am out and about. I would personally rate my appearance 7.5/10.

My experience with girls:

I have never actively approached girls (asking for dates, numbers, etc) so all the things that happened with girls happened more or less by accident. I did not plan or even expect to make out or have sex, it just happened sometimes - usually because the girl took the initiative. I didn't even expect anything to happen.

I also missed several opportunities with girls because I did not realize they were hitting on me (remember I am slightly autistic). For example, one of the hottest girls in my year in high school invited me to her birthday party... I was the only guy that was allowed to sleep at her place after the party was over, she was constantly laughing about my jokes, made fun of her beta orbiters in front of me, took a shower in front of me, etc and I still didn't get the message that she was interested. It took me years to realize that I could have probably fucked her that night/morning. In total I have had 4 situations like this where I missed easy opportunities for sex. Looking back, the only way to rationalize it is that I have had zero game to detect the IOIs.

Overall, between the age 17-25 I made out with like 7 girls and had sex with 2 of them. On top of that, I had sex with hookers around 4 times over the years. I like sex but apparently I never really felt it was important enough to have it regularly. The last time I had sex was in March or April if I remember correctly. So to summarize it, I have a lay-count of 6, which is extremely low for a 25yo.

What do you think of my situation? What should I do?

My idea is to get on Tinder or other dating platforms to get more experience but it's embarassing to have so little sexual experience at my age. Girls often assume a guy in his mid-20s has experience with romantic relatonships. So how should I handle the questions regarding previous sexual partners and relationships, without coming off as weird?

Any general advice is also more than welcome!