kinda confused

shmob-40 · 2019-10-18T22:51:59+00:00

Looks like she didn't want to talk on the phone... What made you want to call her vs. Texting lol

Zohair-Hussain · 2019-10-19T21:35:49+00:00

A girl is like the meter that fills up. You talk to her, the meter goes up. But when you don’t , the meter goes down and you need to start from scratch but not necessary all the time. You can remind her that she had an amazing time with that day and you can pick up the conversation from there. After this, if she doesn’t play along, let it go. Plenty of fish In the see my dude.

devbev · 2019-10-18T23:33:24+00:00

Few things - some specific and some general, but All important.

Consider being less transparent about how reciprocated her feelings are.

Women are typically more attracted to men who’s feelings are unclear, as strange as that may sound to a man.

Women are much more emotional creatures than us, and they resonate extremely well with the emotional - mystery, romance, anticipation, the unfolding of a story.

You’re not looking to be mischievous or misleading, but try to keep in mind how women’s minds really work, and appeal to that.

Women are like cats - avoid chasing.

For the sake of this principle, men are like dogs.

If you’ve never had a cat or just don’t know what they’re like, learn about them.

Or just keep reading obviously - so cats, contrary to dogs, typically need to warm up to people before coming around them.

Dogs run to their owner when he comes home. Dogs will run up to strangers, and play with just about anyone. Dogs just like what they like, and they like the attention, so they go for it.

Cats don’t tend to do that, even for with their owners, often.

Cats are weird compared to dogs - they sort of lurk, feel things out, and sometimes they happen to decide they like the person who doesn’t even pay any attention to it at all...

which is like, what?

Yet there the cat goes, putting itself into the guy’s orbit, apparently having decided he was worth her attention.

Women are just like this.

But another important thing about cats is that when they decide to go away, because you scared them or you pet them wrong,

...or for no obvious good reason...

It’s important to let them.

And by that I mean, if they suddenly don’t show up, don’t reply, don’t call back, don’t text you even if they said they would or they do every single day —

unless you had PLANS, you basically pretend you didn’t notice.

You don’t take the initiative and text first. You don’t call her yourself. You don’t text her a “?” or double text, or keep texting her You don’t show up where she is You don’t watch her Insta or Snap Stories You don’t message her on another platform

I’m giving a lot of examples because this is crucial.

Now, if you accidentally view her story, or you just want to or whatever, fine. It’s not like it matters.

But trust me when I say that in many cases women notice when they don’t text you back for a few hours and then you appear in her stories.

That might tell her that you’re more into her than she’s into you, and few things turn a woman off faster.

Don’t give a f***

This is often such lazy advice, yet I use it in the hope of making you remember —

Whatever happened wasnt a big deal, with the “huh?”

Whenever stuff happens, like you did something dumb, or just something that she took wrong, and you feel like you need to recover —

Stop thinking that way.

As far as she’s concerned, you’re a rock. That’s the mindset you need.

You might’ve messed up (btw, this one call itself doesn’t matter much), but so what? You’ll do better next time.

What you don’t want to come across is you appearing worried, apologetic, etc.

You called... ok. so what if “people don’t call”?

Who the f*** are people? You’re you. Embody this attitude.

For all you know, you could just be being tested. So don’t worry.

Besides, this is one girl - and I can tell you have a lot to look forward to. If you’re doing this well now, once you tweak a few simple things, I really think you’d be flying high.

No limits

Oh yeah - 4.

Be careful with texting..

Over texting and over communicating, AKA, being too transparent and available, are another very easy way to accidentally kill her attraction for you.

I speak only from experience.

Any questions?

Title	kinda confused
Author	jaylenbrowny
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	October 18, 2019 9:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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