Hello! I have a problem with attraction, I'm only attracted to a certain type of girl. I can't even explain what I'm attracted to, I just know that some girls just have it and some, most actually, don't.

It's not even about how hot a girl is, obviously I can tell if a girl is sexy or not but even though I might find her sexy a lot of times she doesn't have it and I'm completely uninterested. It's hard to explain. Like some of my friends follow Instagram models or whatever and they're all like "wow look at this, she is so hot" etc etc. Yeah I can see she's got a nice body and so on but I feel like I have to fake it telling them I find her attractive as well because I "should".

This is a problem because I'm really limiting my self a lot when it comes to picking up girls since most girls I'm completely uninterested in purely based on looks. Now I'm sure if I got to know some of these girls I could build an attraction to her and become interested once I get to know her.

Is it like this for a lot of you guys as well? Do you try to flirt with girls you're initially uninterested in because there will potentially build up some interest once you know her? I feel like for most guys we flirt with girls we're already attracted to from the beginning?

Is there a way I can become attracted to more girls without knowing them? I feel like this is such a weird question but I think it's frustrating, especially when there isn't even a clear line of which girls have it and who don't.

Thanks in advance for any help.