How do you guys get conversions started to get laid on Tinder?

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-10-24T11:37:54+00:00

By not going on tinder and meeting them in real life.

Online dating is the clearance bin of women and the supply of guys is high on those platforms so the chances of you wasting your time is high.

Also you cant build attraction through texting. You're missing the physical aspect.

It's just bad hunting grounds in general for a guy.

You wanna learn how to talk with women?, go out in the field and talk to women, all of them, ugly ones, alright ones, hot ones, etc.

You dont need to number close, just get used to interacting with women.

Over time, ideally you will be able to not feel intimidated or anxious around really attractive ones.

axe122 · 2019-10-24T15:57:00+00:00

Just go into conversation, the first message I found means nothing as she either finds you attractive enough physically or she doesn’t. So just write a message that isn’t “hey” and start talking I suggest asking a question and teasing her for her answer if she asks you the same question give her a ridiculous answer and try and get her to believe it is fun. She’s already attracted to you if she’s answering you on tinder so you just have to not be boring.shes getting messaged by a new guy every hour so you can just keep asking questions without the conversation being fun and playful or she’ll move on to someone else(unless she finds you super hot, maybe then you can get away with it lol) I would agree with the first repost about doing it in real life cuz he’s right tinder is completely in the favor of women as they can have almost any guy they swipe on. I’ve met some really cool and really hot girlfriends in the past on therebut the problem is even if she become your girlfriend you’ll be operating from a scarcity mindset cuz if your under a 8 or 9 on looks it takes months and months to meet a girl you want are compatible with and you don’t screw up with in the very beginning. So if things get a little rocky or she starts acting distant you’ll end up chasing her more or clinging to her cuz you won’t wanna go back and sign up for the apps and do all that bullshit again, so you end up acting clingy and needy or trying to to everything you can to make her happy and this will chase her away

ultimatethxt · 2019-10-24T09:07:57+00:00

I'm 19F and I was on Tinder for ages before I surprisingly met my boyfriend on there. I started out only wanting hookups. I liked guys to just be upfront and say they only wanted a hookup and to state how/where they'd like to meet. Everyone has their own preferences but I like dom guys so I liked it when they chose what to do for me.

burningsmurf · 2019-10-24T15:49:16+00:00

Just avoid small talk and be very upfront. Only use Tinder to get her number or social media or to set up a date.

Title	How do you guys get conversions started to get laid on Tinder?
Author	ygtreceee
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	October 24, 2019 8:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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