Hello all,

So I approached this nice lady in the street, a few days ago, nice talk for like 30 minutes, took her number. The other day I texted her and she asked me if I felt to go out for a walk. Brilliant, we spent like 4 hours walking around, drinking something (just a bit), singing, talking about ourselves. She is in a difficult moment with her ex boyfriend, they met, she was sad and stuff. Not a good sign.

I am a bit a physical person, if I tell a story I may hold her hand in the exciting bits, or hug her after she said something very funny, but while she seemed to enjoy my presence and touch, she also didn't reciprocate. Another bad sign.

At the end of the night I walked her home, hugged her, smiled and say in the most non-needy way, "I really like you, I'm sorry you have such a mess you head."

I had a great time and didn't care about any further outcome really, just kind of informed her. She said "yeah, I know".

Now, I went home and was like ok, no point in investing time with her, was nice but let's move on.

Then the next day she called me, to hang out again. I was kind of busy so I couldn't at the moment, but yeah, next time.

Now, I'm a bit confused by this mixed signals. Am I getting friendzoned very quickly despite my most explicit interest or what? How to find that out? Ask her out again in a few days? I'm terrible in this seduction thing, damn me. Trying to learn.

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Thanks!