I have been seeing this young lady for a while who really cares for me, or so it seems. I have to give her credit, she is a great person and I enjoy her company, but things Iike getting her to drive the half hour to see me at the drop of a hat, they're impossible. Shouldn't they be eating out of the palm of your hands, trying to spend their time as much as possible, borderline obsessing over you if you're doing it right? Conversely, she doesn't respond well to "redpill" behavior, she doesnt seem to react at all to most things and is so ebb and flow that she isn't reactive in a positive, but not negative way. She's read a few articles here thanks to me leaving my tabs open, and thinks the type of women/behaviors written about are insane and are shitty people, she seems to hold a disdain against status seeking, etc. All that said, She also thinks ideas seen on here like the suggestion that your woman shouldn't want to travel without you is crazy because she believes in trust and living life, etc. A free spirit of sorts. I don't know what I could begin to do to combat all this. I unfortunately have a connection with her as a person that is hard to find, so while I'm not thinking of shutting up shop for good I want to see where this could go. As such I will admit I decided I would bite and commit to a relationship, with the understanding that it could change at any moment as life can be crazy and we haven't quite invested much.