Turned plate of 4 months into ltr girlfriend, sex started to dwindle

JayViceroy · 2015-04-26T07:16:06+00:00

Drop her and learn how to handle an LTR by spinning plates. You learn amused mastery and abundance mentality. She was never a plate. A plate isn't one girl. You had oneitis from the start. A plate is a plate when you have the intention of spinning more plates. A plate is a FWB, a booty call. She was never either. Get over it. Take the pussy off the pedestal son.

[deleted] · 2015-04-26T08:21:37+00:00

She doesn't believe your dread, show, don't tell. An example of telling would be saying how you got hit on the other day by a chick, an example of showing would be to take her out to a bar/club/random social place, and have good and fun interactions with other hot women, don't worry about whether she's watching, of course she's watching. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment, if she starts slackin on her duties, you need to start taking away some of the perks she gets from being exclusive with you. This is her negotiating less effort from herself into equal or more effort from you. Don't accept it, call her out and rethink to yourself out loud what you're getting from this relationship.

frequentlywrong · 2015-04-26T14:10:04+00:00

If she is not providing you with what you need (sex), you should stop providing her with what she needs (your attention).

wakethfkupneo · 2015-04-26T08:44:23+00:00

Dread does work, no questions. If it doesn't work for you it only means you're doing it wrong. Here are some ideas: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-04-26T12:46:56+00:00

dinkle_berrg · 2015-04-26T14:57:48+00:00

Re-approach your take on dread. She's not giving you the sex you need, so she is no longer of as great value, correct? Correct. Don't have to be mean about. She's just not putting out. It happens, whateverrr, go do other shit and look hot while you're doing it.

Go and buy a hot new outfit

Only text for practical purpose, like setting up dates, scheduling, flirting with good feedback

Go out without her, have fun.

Fill in the time that you could be having sex with going to the gym.

Just relax bro. Focus on your work for a little bit, meditate, deep breaths. Rejuvenate yourself , gain composure. Jerk off if you have to

Assess your behavior. Make sure you are putting out a masculine, sexual, exciting and interesting vibe when appropriate.

Just reminders here, a little checklist. You don't have to undergo a personality change. Just go through your rhythms, make sure you're doing everything right.

gangstaman9000the2nd · 2015-04-26T16:35:26+00:00

Guys we are being trolled

Title	Turned plate of 4 months into ltr girlfriend, sex started to dwindle
Author	sociosexualstatus
Upvotes	14
Comments	15
Date	April 26, 2015 6:17 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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