In January, I nexted an LTR and went back into the field where I had a great deal of success. A model on Tinder, a girl 11 years younger, a foreign exchange girl, an old plate, and a new FWB. I banged 5 different girls in about a month, barely having to try, but suddenly, in the course of a day or two, my sexual desire went down to zero.

But I actually think it's healthy. The new bangs were fun, but brought nothing of permanent value to my life.

I'm not sure if it's a sign of me wanting to put the player mentality behind me. Permanently? Temporarily? I'm 34, and if I had this kind of appetite, I could be banging 20 new girls a year until I'm 40. But that's not really the kind of life I want. Is this my body and mind telling me something? I don't want my lowered libido to push me into beta satisfaction however.

Maybe it's like after a Thanksgiving feast when you feel like you couldn't eat for 4 days afterwards.

My other concern is that I first noticed this loss of appetite when I went out with the girl 11 years younger than me. We had banged two months prior, but our schedules didn't work out to see each other again except one night out where she had to leave on a bus at 6am, so nothing escalated. I had expected to f-close when we went out again recently, but during dinner and drinks she seemed flirty, yet pushing for something more, and, consciously resisted my physical advances despite showing IOIs. I think she's interested in me and is maybe trying to put up resistance because we banged the first night we got together when finally neither one of us was attached, and she wants me, but not as just a fuck buddy. And frankly, I think she's a cool girl and we are in the same industry and same cultural background.

However, it's harder to game her and DHV when suddenly my libido is tired like your body after a marathon.

Any thoughts about this? Should I wait for my appetite to come back? Did she put some kind of feminine magic on me to put me in beta mode? Am I just tired after a 10-week all-you-can-fuck buffet? Anybody have any experiences like this?