How could I get my GF to long for me more often sexually?

shooot2kill · 2019-11-28T09:16:28+00:00

Fuck her good

Smoking-Apathy · 2019-11-28T12:27:06+00:00

I’m a girl so maybe my opinion isn’t valid here, but maybe you two are spending too much time together. Maybe she’s stressed out, and sex is the last thing on her mind. Does she need work done around the house? Do them so she doesn’t have to worry about it later. Don’t ask, just do it. (Asking is a severe turn off, it makes us feel like we’re taking care of a child. Look around and find it yourself) Can’t say it will work, but it’s worth a try.

Another thing is go out more, do less things with her, she’ll likely notice your absence. Obviously don’t do anything stupid, but live your own life. Hit the gym if you aren’t already, find a new hobby, improve yourself in anyway you can. ( Not video games all day, because there’s no progress in the real life) it’s ok to play tho just moderation. Women are turned on by a man’s motivation to better himself and his life around him. It’s a severe turn off when a man puts all his attention on his woman but not on himself. A little romance is fine, but not everyday.

This also depends on your girl, is she the independent type? Or the insecure type? Does she need your attention all the time to make her feel good about herself. Or is she confident in herself and does her own thing?

I’m the independent type, and can go hours without seeing a man, but my brother’s girl gets sad and complains when he’s away from her for too long.

Took a lot of time researching the nature of men and women. If she is pulling away from you, you pull back and enjoy your life! Hopefully she’ll try to get your attention back, if not there may be a problem in the relationship on her side.

Human beings are confusing.

2019-11-28T13:11:12+00:00

1) Learn how to make her squirt or have more frequent orgasms. For me its a manual clitoral stimulation (say little circles with your fingertip while gently pulling the hood back) until she's really wet and relaxed, then quick steady penetration with either your finger, dildo, or cock hitting her G spot (about an inch in on the top). Finger can usually go faster. A guy I dated could do this and it made me crave him like a drug. 2) Yes, fitness would help build cravability. You can also try things like tango dance or massage or other ways you can show skill in a sensual way that would build cravability. 3) Make sure she's not overwhelmed with household things. Studies show women have more sex when men do more in the household. If you aren't making her come and you're asking her to do a lot in the household and then perform in bed for your pleasure, it's not something she'll crave. If you want sex more often, you need to build craveability, not just getting sex because she loves you and wants you happy (which might be enough for 2-3 times a week when you don't have kids).

2019-11-28T09:10:51+00:00

fuck her brains out ....and remember intensity over frequency

Eezay · 2019-11-28T13:39:49+00:00

Basically eat her pussy for ~20 min and then fuck her like an animal

2019-11-28T13:43:14+00:00

As some of the others have suggested, learn to have better intercourse. Read watch ways to make her orgasm and learn new positions. I would also recommend that once you’ve learned some new moves, you let her know that you’ve learned something new and would like to try it out. If she inquires about what it could be, tell her she’ll find out the next time y’all have intercourse. Also, make sure you’re building up to it and not just jumping in to the “good part.” Learn to have passionate sex to build a better connection to each other. Make sure you’re actually good in bed and know it. Don’t ask about it but make sure you pick up on her cues. Is she fake moaning, how intense are her orgasms (if she’s having any at all). This will let you know what areas you need to work on (passion, intensity, etc.) If nothing we suggest work, maybe she has a low sex drive and God forbid that she’s cheating on you but you should be able to pick up on these in other ways, not just in the bedroom. Whatever you do, don’t pressure her, let things unfold naturally and accept what happens. Best wishes.

quinnmcd · 2019-11-28T14:15:07+00:00

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rich_god · 2019-11-28T09:34:22+00:00

How long have you been together ? 2-3 times a week is pretty high if you've been together for more than 2 years. Is the quality there ?

What you can do :

Propose massage sessions where sexuality is not a given, and give good massages.
Talk about your sexuality, talk about some kinks you would like to do with her, listen to her.
Tell her when you're excited, even if you can't have sex at the moment. Tell her what you like about her, what you would like to do to her. Use metaphors, be creative, be a poet.
Talk about your desires, what excites you, be transgressive. Try to be dominant, identify what gets her going and get really good at that.
Put some sexy chill music, dim lightning if you can, and say something like "I think tonight I just want to talk with you", and see what happens.
Avoid screens when you're together, and talk about anything that could make any of you anxious. Anxiety kills desire.
Have long sessions, take your time, you can even try to not finish to keep the desire going.
Don't put pressure on sexuality to happen. Respect her consent above all.

Title	How could I get my GF to long for me more often sexually?
Author	Fabianku
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	November 28, 2019 8:28 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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