I’m stuck again.

rich_god · 2019-11-29T08:47:11+00:00

What made you think she was into you ?

You're probably getting clues wrong and showing off as needy / insecure.

anonymousmousemous · 2019-11-29T09:29:05+00:00

If I’m reading this right I have a friend who has a similar problem. He seems to get confidence to make a move every once in a while but seems to usually get rejected and things don’t work out for him even though he’s an average looking and nice guy. One problem he has is that he, in his head, exaggerates the role the social media plays in terms of relationships with girls. He thinks that so and so snapchats or conversations or instagram follows could mean something in terms of that girl liking him, but it really doesn’t. Now don’t get me wrong because you can use social media to flirt with girls and it’s actually really effective. However, don’t read too much into the meaning of anything on social media and when you want to make actual moves (such as asking a girl on a date) is recommend doing it in person. Try to become more comfortable with girls in person but at the same time don’t come off as needy as this is a turn off for girls

There’s a fine line between being confident and being needy in terms of dating. I think that the main difference is real confidence stems from being confident in the person you are and liking yourself as a person and trusting that you can make the right decisions. Faking confidence and just being confident in saying certain things comes off as needy as it seems like you are just trying to get her attention. First, work on yourself and do what you need to do to become confident in who you are as a person. Watch videos on how to be your best self, figure out how you like to style your hair and clothes, and go out and be social with people.

Hope that helps

oneimage · 2019-11-29T13:12:26+00:00

You can be boring and unfun. Or just uninteresting in general. Lack of hobbies or solid direction in life can turn them off. But the good part that you can change it. Don't concentrate on things you can't change. It gives you a victim mentality. Develop yourself.

raithespaceknight · 2019-11-29T08:36:57+00:00

Youre not alone

Title	I’m stuck again.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	November 29, 2019 8:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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