How do I convince my gf to do butt play

tupapabatman · 2019-12-04T18:23:57+00:00

This will take a while friend. Well, everyone’s different, so expect that it won’t happen. Believe this, don’t go into it w expectations. Ask her about her desires, and what turns her on.Speak to her about your desires-bring it up appropriately, not like at dinner, unless you guys are open and comfy like that. The main key is that she has to be 100% comfortable w you. If she’s not, it’s not even a thought in her head. Be a good man, treat her well, respect her, lust for her, show her love, devour her, then lick her booty . Bite that shit, nibble on it, be fun, and sporadic. Yeah, that’s how I would bring it up. With this, you’re gonna have to learn to read your partner and her signals. Sometimes they will say “yes” to just please us for wtvr reason. Learn between this and a genuine, yes from the heart. Best of luck

purple-blanket · 2019-12-04T18:34:49+00:00

It partially depends on how long you've been seeing her. If you've already established a pretty good connection in bed, it shouldn't be so difficult to ask her about it.

One thing for sure is, don't pressure her into doing it, especially if she hasn't done it before. Every girl is different and if she feels pressured to do it, chances are she won't budge and just say no.

I've recently done anal with my boyfriend of 3 years and it took some proper thinking before it could happen. When both of us finally felt ready, we went for it and it turned out amazing. Preparation is key! And also learning a thing or 2 about it is good for first timers. (:

2019-12-04T19:22:36+00:00

Each woman experiences different things from anal. Some love just the sensation of being penetrated, others the feeling of feeling “full”, and dp fantasies. Don’t use yourself as a first for anal, use smaller, thinner things, like fingers . To actually do anal that’s fun, and painless, you gotta build up the tolerance. You gotta do buttplay often but once I said, you make her 100% comfortable, she will be willing to do anything for you bc you have given her that to trust in you. If you can’t get the perspective of other females that you trust, look up online about “1st time anal+female” or look at first time gay anal. There’s a lot of info on the web, ppl are just too judgmental to search . We are all here for each other. Let’s love and let live !

kalz44 · 2019-12-04T21:31:15+00:00

Start with the conversation.

axe122 · 2019-12-05T14:15:22+00:00

Do you have vanilla sex or are you do I ant in the bedroom? Almost every girl has a fantasy of being dominated but they won’t tell you that because it’s not “strong or p.c. With today’s word” but it’s much easier if they enjoy your dominance and I don’t mean whips and chains even, it can be as simple as pinning her arms behinds her head and don’t ask her for things tell her, there is a reason 50 shades of grey was so huge and written by a woman. It’s gonna be harder to just turn on dominance with her outa nowhere so you’ll have to do a super slow progression and see what she comfortable a With (if you want more info or details private message me) the other tip I can give you is when your doggystyle use a lot of lube and tease her ass with your fingers while fucking her then the next time slide a finger in, then a thumb then two fingers (each being a different sex session so it’s a slow build) just always make sure she seems okay with it and it it hurts her at any point stop,you really gotta feel her out and see what she’s comfortable while pushing her boundaries and making sure she’s enjoying it too. If your doing these things right she’ll love it. Don’t expect to fuck her in the ass for months though. She’s gotta be comfortable being a little freaky and seeing you as a little more dominant than you’ve been and enjoy the fingers in her butt.

Title	How do I convince my gf to do butt play
Author	tupapabatman
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	December 4, 2019 6:17 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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