I find it easy to be real because I've been that way for a while now. It's hard for me to bend myself over and agree with something I'm against. I can't see myself fucking a girl who isn't open minded. Like maybe for a one night stand, but it's like what's the difference between that and fucking a prostitute. Like what's the pointing of putting all this work to get a lay for a chick that I don't even respect. Like my right hand is at least trustworthy and reliable. It just feels like pushing buttons and then getting a reward in the form of validation. I see posts about dudes with 3-4 plates and a LTR candidate and all these stories of these literal chicks being shitty human beings treated as cum dumpsters. Like is my sex drive that high for me to tolerate some bullshit? I don't think so. At the same time, at least for now, beggars can't be choosers right?

So I'm at a cross-roads. Do I compromise my authenticity when I approach to get experience with all types until I know how to express myself sexually so I can be at my best when I do meet the authentic chicks that I do vibe with? How do I put out the signals to the authentic chicks that I want to pull during conversation? Be myself while staying confident? Do game techniques even matter at that point, besides escalation/kino and sexualizing convo? Because being authentic is already polarizing, negging won't be necessary because you'll be honest if they do some dumb shit, and shit tests won't matter because you'll have boundaries and self-esteem. But in turn, if you compromise your authenticity for sex, self-esteem will take a huge hit. What are your experiences with this?

P.S. I read Models by Mark Manson and I pretty much agree with everything besides the direct approach (ex. "hi I came to say hi because I think you're attractive"). I feel like it's off-putting to most unless you're really skilled, lucky, or have any enough value for them to roll with it.