This is kinda a weird problem to have for me. I'm still awful at approaching and just dont do it but this is different. I go out to clubs with friends sometimes and every once in a while when I'm just having fun dancing some girl will just come up and start dancing on me. And I'm not really sure what to do after that to close.

Two nights ago for example, she was dancing in me for a while then moved my hand from her hip around to the front, I'm not sure if she wanted me to like grope her in this group of people we all kinda knew or what. Usually in this situation they eventually move on because I guess they assume I'm not interested because idk what to say or do or anything. That time my friends wanted to get drinks and I told her we were gonna do that and go somewhere else but maybe I shouldve more explicitly invited her. Just realized that now haha