How do I know if a girl is just playing games with me

ifalakhe · 2019-12-17T09:18:03+00:00

I, going to against the trend. I have had a situation with not one but three girls who did something similar to me. Initially I thought the first was playing games and didn’t chase. When it happened with the second. I decided to go mode one and let her know after the first fleck that what she did was not on, carried on the interactions like it was water under the bridge and next time I asked her out, she came and during the course of the road trip, she confessed that she had been scared of how she felt and it made me realise that it’s not guys only who suffer from Approach Anxiety, girls feel it and when she is being funny, it’s best to make her feel safe, let her know what she did was off, reassure her you’re cool cause she didn’t know how you felt about it and gently move to setting up a second date and see how she reacts.

On a side note, people also have their issues to deal with. Maybe she is going through something,Mir is not always binary

KingRemu · 2019-12-17T04:41:13+00:00

Is she contacting you first a lot or is it you initiating the convo every time?

Atriev · 2019-12-17T05:43:32+00:00

If she pulls back, you respond with silence too. Don’t chase.

Be on your purpose and date other girls so she’s not a big part of your life so you aren’t actively waiting for her.

Title	How do I know if a girl is just playing games with me
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Date	December 17, 2019 4:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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