Should you tell a girl that youre shy before meeting her?

ilikepie145 · 2019-12-18T20:35:56+00:00

Nah just wing it, just be yourself. It’s fine. If you tell her it shows you have less confidence and are weak.

FieldReports13 · 2019-12-18T20:46:10+00:00

No. Ask questions and get her talking.

axe122 · 2019-12-18T21:00:01+00:00

Do not ask questions like an interview unless you wanna just be friends. The purpose of a date is get her into you sexually and romantically not get to know her like a robot.

Your gonna have to ask some questions obviously but you wanna tease her n some of her answers and just have fun with her, you’ll learn about how many brothers and sisters she has and all that stuff if you hit it off over time.

Asking questions like how was work and how many brothers and sisters do you have? Are boring as all hell for the girls and it’s equivalent to being stuck at a family party with an aunt or uncle you like but they are making small talk you look over and see your siblings or cousins having a fun conversation and all you wanna do is joking their fun conversation and get away from the boring aunt uncle one no matter how nice they are.

Obviously this approach is better than staring at a girl silently and I’ve got some girls doing this but I can assure you I would’ve got way more of them as girlfriends or potential girlfriends if I was more playful on the dates, teasing and bantering with her and just having fun.

manonpoint_com · 2019-12-19T01:08:18+00:00

No. Shy is often not considered attractive, so don't lead with that. Focus on trying to be more outgoing and engaging instead of lowering her interest level before even meeting her. Note, introverted and shy are not the same thing.

Title	Should you tell a girl that youre shy before meeting her?
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Date	December 18, 2019 8:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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