So I don’t find it too difficult to set up a date but I find myself slightly annoyed at my flake rate which is about 45-50% and I want to decrease that. Sometimes I’ll double book as a contingency to flakes but I’d prefer not to waste a date. Besides factors out of my control, I’d like to make some changes such as how I approach confirming a date. I find that when I ignore a girl for a while she becomes disinterested and less willing to go on a date even if it’s already set up.

How do you prevent her from becoming disinterested? How do you confirm a date after not speaking for a while?

I find that if I haven’t talked to them after days at a time and the day of the date I hit them with the “See you at (time of date)” they feel like it’s robotic or like I don’t care. I’ve had a few girls literally tell me this. I feel like I’m doing a lot right but there’s a nuance I need to fix. The obvious answer is to not give a fuck but I’m certain this can be improved.