Like many I want to please the ladies but not because of my abundance but because of my needy behavior. After i have read "Models" by Mark Manson i have realized that this goes hand in hand with value the opinion of others higher than my own. Since then i tried more or less to put myself first by valuing my own judgement higher and had amazing results at the beginning. I tried to come up with a blueprint of how to do this but i failed because i just couldn't put it into words. Now i feel like i just could do it with the mercy of god. But today I am back to zero and wanted to ask you guys how you establish that solid believe in yourself without worrying too much about what other people think of you. Thanks!