I have a question to you. I see sometimes that women are looking at me and sometimes they are smiling to me. Sometimes i can see the subtle signals that they are sending and that it shows interest. But i often think: oh, she is just being friendly to me, she is not interested. I was afraid to show my interest to the women, didn’t smile or looked away. I even did sometimes look angry at them, because i was just afraid to let somebody come close to me and as a defense mechanism instead of showing that i am interested in them.

Sometimes women even approach me and talk about random things (it looked like they were interested in me) or come closer to me and it looks that they want to approached by me.

I always keep the conversations save and don’t dare to flirt or ask them out. My head says: what if i asked her out and i had it wrong with the signals etc. Maybe she was just being friendly to me. So i don’t take the risk..

So, what do i have to do when a looks at me, making eye contact or smiling at me? For women: had you have similar situations that you were giving signals and the guy didn’t respond?

I like to hear your opinions.