Hey everyone!

Well there - I tried approaching on countless different ways and methods and it never seemed to work. I effectively gave up a few weeks ago and didn't speak to a single new girl first. When I told about it to my friends or asked online I got such an insane variety of answers that I could not do anything with it.

When I moved out I began with it, approaching maybe 30-50 new, random girls in perhaps 1-2months. I know, it's not much at all but it was for me.

I mean I really sucked with the girls. I got asked out by beautiful girls some times and also approached couple times really directly by beautiful girls - girls asking to work out together with me in the gym, a girl in the shop asking to sit and wait with me, girls I knew for some time asking me out via WhatsApp and so forth. Don't get me wrong - it's nothing to be proud. I fucked up every single time because I was too shy and so shocked that such an attractive girls approached me that I responded so weirdly, sometimes rudely and seemingly completely disinterested. Well, such approaches from girls are really rare though and the last one I had maybe 5 months ago.

I really think that I look, if styled and taken care of like a 8-9/10. I am 181cm or nearly 6 feet tall, 82kg, normal athletic build (I lift but not much). I am 20 years old (from Germany if it matters and also in Germany) and a student, with a nice, fun and diverse lifestyle.

About my approaches: I tried to approach in so many different ways, also including just telling them they're really beautiful and I had to get to know them, that I simply had to talk to them or I'd feel bad and so forth. While I usually got sincere appreciation (or a thank you at best) it didn't really work. I watched people on YT doing it and figured that it didn't work because I didn't come over as self-confident as they did. I read often that it's a bad way to be so direct and honest here - I mean I don't know. Do people say its bad because they didn't try or because it is a bad thing?

I did couple of approaches where I didn't tell straight off that they're beautiful and had far more success with it. Once even I met a super attractive medicine student, approached her and her friend on the underground station, her friend left and I've went with her to the campus together and we talked for like 20-30mins! At the end I didn't ask for any contact data because I did get rejected recently and simply did not want to get rejected again. Things like that happened so often to me.

So I gave up because no matter what I did seemed not to work.... But now I think that I'll get back into the game again. The only thing I'm not certain of is if I should try the really direct approach of "you're beautiful blah blah" or something more subtle? I just want to ensure that I'm not wasting time and energy because it really sucks getting rejected so often. I can't seem to come over it for a long time simply.

TLDR: After getting rejected so often, which made absolutely no sense for me, I kinda gave up. I want to get back into the game! Advice?

This post is probably too long for answers - but come on lads and lasses, help a fellow seductionist in his time of despair! :D