What are good goals to set?

BlackBeltDater · 2020-01-08T04:38:42+00:00

Build a social network instead of being the creepy PUA guy on campus. Join student groups, play sports, join committees with hot chicks in them, etc..

Only until you have a solid network of bros and chicks would I start picking up other chicks since now you have social status.

bournit · 2020-01-08T12:12:09+00:00

Good question. I am pretty much in the same situation, but I completely avoid to approach in campus : maybe I'm wasting tons of opportunities, but I don't want to be exposed for a thing I can simply do elsewhere (city centre, mall, stations). So if I shave to suggest you something, that something is: use uni for its own aim, for studying, career and friends; then go elsewhere and pickup girls (2-3 approaches per day , and 1 numb, are a good goal in the street, and also not so easy to keep it trought time), because even for the pros flake ratio is always huge, and I think you don't want to end up developing a skill only in one place, only with girls from uni, only talking about things you have or not in common (here I refer to the fact that meeting people on the street provides you way more variety of topics on which "train on" your "stack" abilities). Also I think girls at uni rarely appreciate guys of their age, or, if they do, they try to set them as bf rather then friends with benefits.

So, if you red this, let me know what you thing about, and let me know if I am billshitting myself (I think I am, but I need to know why those are bullshits). I want to destroy my beliefs

Title	What are good goals to set?
Author	Pinettreezz
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	January 8, 2020 4:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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