Psyching myself out of trying to kiss her

I_fail_this · 2020-01-10T02:11:25+00:00

Uhhh no dude you better kiss her before she loses interest. Moving too slow is just as bad as moving too fast. Hug her when you greet her, break the touch barrier, kiss her dont wait til end of date. Squeeze her ass while you make out (if shes cool with it)

Knocked_out · 2020-01-10T04:57:28+00:00

You just need to go on lots of dates man. When you start fucking up dates by realizing you should've made a move of some sort and you never hear from the girl again because she felt the lack of confidence, you're on the right path. Eventually you just figure out ways of getting a kiss on the first date no matter what and potentially escalating it from there. It just comes down to conditioning and being exposed to the situation many many times.

axe122 · 2020-01-10T07:22:44+00:00

Kiss her within 15 min, I would kiss her right when I saw her myself but I get that seems a little a fast to you now. Don’t wait till the end of the date, she wants you to sleep with her or she wouldn’t be going on a second date with you. Girls don’t go out with guys they have no sexual interest in, they ignore,make excuses or ghost them cuz they don’t wanna waste their time. If you wait till the end of the date it will be harder to kiss her if your already in your head.

Just don’t bring up relationship stuff with her or keep kissing her ass over complimenting her. Also don’t over text and call and you’ll be fine she won’t get that he’s in love with me vibe.

It’s normal to like someone some after the first or second date or you wouldn’t go on a another. You kiss and sleep with girls you like and Vice versa(it doesn’t mean your in love)

She wants you to kiss her and sleep with her or she wouldn’t be going on a second day with you. Not pulling the trigger again and asking for a 3rd date lumps you in as low confidence to women as your obviously interest and typically the only guys who don’t go for kiss on first date are the low confidence guys who fall in love on second date.

You don’t want her to stop viewing you as a potential sexual partner so kiss her and establish that your real is man to woman and not plutonic.

I would give her a real big bear hug when I saw her and look her in the eye and kiss her.( I’ve done this on first dates and had 100% success rate doing it. Slept with and dated every single girl I’ve done this with on the first date and they wanted to continue seeing me as I dated them all for at least a month)

If your not ready to do it that early give her a real 3-5 second hug, squeeze her and go from there.

My point is don’t wait for the cliche end of date moment. Look up a video of the gangster on the Todd v series. It’s when your talking making eye contact. Create a pause for a second, put your drink down stand up walk over to her, take her drink from her hand (if she’s holding one) put it down and kiss her. Then sit back down, I’ve personally used this many times and it def works. I’ve never been rejected for either of these moves once.

I recommend kissing her writhin 15-20 min to get you outa your head and she’s probly in hers too. You can get it outa the way and just have fun cuz all that pressure is off. She’s on a second date so she already likes you, you can only potentially turn her off from liking you at this point by hesitating or raise her attraction and she likes you more cuz you did kiss her.(she wants to kiss you too)

Just go for it and I would recommend doing it early in the date. Right now she views you as a potential sexual partner or she wouldn’t be going on a 2nd date but if you wait till the end she could lose interest if your not putting off a romantic vibe and she may even kiss you. I never recommend waiting till the end of date cuz it’s cliche and expected. She may even kiss back after a boring date just because she feels obligated to the way the social norm is to hug you when she sees you, she’ll try and do an ass out hug but give her a real hug. You wanna be indifferently interested. Show that your interested in a a man to woman relationship but your also not 100% sure about her yet as it’s only been 2 dates.

Even if your under 20 which is the only time sex still comes after the relationship as it’s their first time and they still want it with someone they are with as they think that’s what it’s supposed to be like and don’t wanna be labeled a slut. Kissing would still come before the relationship not after. So same basic rules apply just wait till she’s ready to try and sleep with her.

I sleep with 80% of the girls I date on the first date so kissing her on the first would not be to fast. A lot of guys and girls do it that way and a lot people have sex without even dating at all, they just kinda hookup having never even met before.

Your definitely no moving too fast kissing on a first date. Even sleeping with them on the first date I’ve dated every single one of them for about a month so they didn’t lose interest or think it was going to fast as they wanted to keep seeing me until I ended it cuz we weren’t compatible long term I didn’t feel.

Shadow__Account · 2020-01-10T09:32:33+00:00

Imagine how funny it would be if you kissed her and said i love you immediately after.. i would definitely do that, but i don't know if it fits your personality.

ps Its overthinking, she is not thinking about that, she will probably be worried if her hair looks good or something or if you are going to kiss her finally.

Title	Psyching myself out of trying to kiss her
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Date	January 10, 2020 1:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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