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[–]andrew343 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I guess I would say something like "Hey, I like hanging out with you, but you're making it difficult to make plans. If you want to see each other again let me know, if not that's fine too." and then don't think about it anymore.
People make time for what they care about, so maybe she's just not that into you. It sucks, flakiness is very annoying.
[–]_Bramble_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s pretty good and straight forward which is what I’m after cause I don’t usually get caught up in stuff like this.
Probably gonna use that tweak it to my own words slightly. Thank you very much
[–]andrew343 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course, the specific wording doesn't matter so much. No problem.
[–]grrinchas 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Just leave it. Not worth it.
[–]_Bramble_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yeah 100%
But I feel like I need to tell her I’m annoyed before I do.
[–]grrinchas 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If you tell her that. It means you care about her enough to tell this.
[–]_Bramble_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’ve known her for a long time but only ever as friends.
I do care about her, which is the reason I’m annoyed.
[–]btrpb[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If she gave half a shit about you she wouldn't fuck about with arrangements. Sorry bro. Calling her out will just make her resent you. Better to just move on.
[–]_Bramble_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hm I get you, so just ignore her and get on with my new plans.
[–]btrpb[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly that. Chin up, move on.
[–]_Bramble_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a plan
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (3 children) | Copy Link
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u/quinnmcd could you weigh in your opinion for me please? That would be great?
[–]quinnmcd -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ghosted me all day
immature and disrespectful. drop her. if she was interested she would make time and put effort into communicating.
Thanks man
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