Just heard my roommate having sex and it was torture.

grrinchas · 2020-01-19T11:29:40+00:00

Ahhh. That feeling of jealousy. You should be happy that your roommate is successful with women, and not be jealous, mate. This kind of mindset leads to very sad future for you.

2020-01-19T07:58:55+00:00

Yes.

Vipassana Meditation and super direct confident cold approaches.

Vipassana meditation to handle suffering in the present.

Direct cold approaching to move me towards my sexual and romantic goals.

I already live in a big city so abundance of women is not a problem for me. If I were you I’d definitely move and also pickup meditation .. you may learn humiliation is just some warmth or tension that you can objectively observe and not react to and if it fades in its own .. humiliation isn’t a problem it’s your reaction to it (oh I’m a loser .. go away pain!) which causes suffering

jw12050 · 2020-01-19T08:14:26+00:00

In a similar situation right now bro, just got out of a three year relationship and am trying to get back on my feet, I've had some success in the past four months or so since me and my ex parted ways, however, I've come to realize, that i don't have much game in comparison to many of my friends. I just got done reading 'how to be a 3% man' by corey wayne and am currently reading 'the mystery method'. I saw a significant amount of improvement after just reading 3%, and it really pushed me to get myself out there. It's all about persistance, and remember, its not really that other people have 'game', they have 'practice'.

BetterBeLuckyThanGud · 2020-01-19T12:57:47+00:00

use the frustration energie to ask him how he does it , and learn from him.

win-win.

either accept it , change it or move on. Here you have the possibility to change and to learn

quinnmcd · 2020-01-19T14:58:45+00:00

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Title	Just heard my roommate having sex and it was torture.
Author	That-one-dude-001
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	January 19, 2020 7:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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