So I swallowed red pill after a breakup with oneitis and trying to get in the "spinning game", fortunately I'm pretty good looking and in a nice shape.

I've been doing that for couple months and currently have 2 plates, couple more I'm chatting with, 2 girl already flaked, trying to meet with 1-2 new girls a week, mostly from Tinder now just because it's quick.

But the thing is, with none of them I felt anything even remotely close to my previous LTR. And the girl before her too. Zero emotions. It's usually one of those options: (1 - oh this girl I dont even want to fuck), (2 - she's okay, I can fuck her couple of times but nothing more, no dates) or (3 - wow she's hot, fucking her will be good, maybe even spending some time together) but there is no "spark" you know guys?

I know I'd never fall for them, at least ~10 that I met so far. Should I just keep going? Or should I raise my level and don't spend time fucking 5-6 point girls (2nd option from above). But isn't it an experience as well? and I kind of need some average girls to train and get better/recover from oneitis.

I know there are guys that fuck everything that has vagina basically, and there are some very selective guys, just want to hear your opinions and pros/cons on that.

Also, what's the best way to flake after 2-3 sex dates? When I don't want to keep fucking her? One of those kind of girls keeps texting me, and I don't want to keep it going, sex wasn't even good. But I'm feeling like shit doing it.

Another thing is, doing those 3-4 dates a week (2 with current plates, 1-2 with new girls) is really time consuming, how do you handle it? thanks