This girl i know told me about how she saw this guy at the mall and then they started making out and whatever and he was rubbing all up on her and kissing her and shit. Then she was like they should both go into the bathroom but then he was like “ok cool are we gonna fuck? And then she immediately changed her mind. She was like “if we wouldve just went into the bathroom i would have just let him fuck me. But since he asked, i wasnt gonna let him fuck”

and im like bro what? All that and you werent gonna let him fuck just because he asked? And that got me thinking, do girls really hate when you ask for stuff? Like dont they expect you to just take the risk and do whatever you want?