Had sex on first date, but didnt even go in for a kiss on the second!

2020-01-29T20:15:49+00:00

Well its definitely a step backwards. And she realizes that, if she wasn't interested she wouldn't have come on a second date. She might think that you've been turned off by her.

But in equal measure its difficult to make a move in a restaurant. Invite her to your place?

The best way to know if it has ruined your chances is to plan a third date, see how she responds.

axe122 · 2020-01-29T22:06:20+00:00

Yeah if you take her out again kiss her like she’s someone your dating. Don’t wait till the end of the date. You def took a big step backwards but it doesn’t mean it’s over. Girls will take your lead, if you act super comfortable and kiss her like you’ve been there before she’ll go with that. You already know she likes you cuz she slept with you and went on another date with you. If you make things a little awkward she’s not gonna throw herself at you or take the lead. Women want men to be the leaders in the beginning of a relationship especially. That’s why they are always talking about how important confidence is cuz they want you to be confident enough for her to feel comfortable in the interaction until she feels more confident being around you.

aecdipkk · 2020-01-30T19:27:26+00:00

She didn't like the sex. She was being nice with the dinner.

Shadow__Account · 2020-02-20T13:52:47+00:00

I have had similar weird things, where it felt like i went backwards in steps.

Who knows man, maybe she had a bad day, maybe she has issues. Maybe she likes you but feels ashamed she had sex on the first date and now has some twisted logic to herself that if shes holding out now she can make up her perceived slutiness.

I wouldn't beat myself up too much about it, while lack of moves getting you into the friend zone is a real thing, i have noticed many times my lack of moves just made girls doubt themselves and maybe she is somewhere on reddit making a topic wondering what she did wrong. So don't beat yourself up about it too much.

Title	Had sex on first date, but didnt even go in for a kiss on the second!
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Date	January 29, 2020 8:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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