This is pretty textbook TRP, but relatively new to me. I post it here both to look for things I may have missed and as a mini-FR for guys on their first few plates.

My second job is as a bouncer on weekends, and pulling women while on the job is sinfully easy. One girl, Plate-To-Be (hereafter PTB), gave me her number 2 weeks ago and we arranged to hang out - she flaked. I usually give women a second chance - if they flake again, just next them.

Have not fucked Plate-To-Be yet, have met her for coffee - odds are I will fuck her some time this weekend. Due to the circumstances of conflicting schedules, I've had to improvise, utilizing text game more frequently than ideal for kino. PTB responds favorably, engages in sexual talk, and then every so often pulls a "I can't say that, I'll sound slutty" or "I don't want you to think I sleep around bc I really don't, I haven't had sex in 7 months." Here are my major takeaways from these comments:

  • PTB is a slut (duh).
  • She sees me as high value and wants to remain a viable prospect for when she tries to begin The Boyfriend Project on me.
  • She's attracted enough to me that she's apprehensive (newbies: this is good). Hence why I will make it a point to fuck her this weekend.

Although I can see the writing on the wall, I am unsure how to deal with this weird ASD - thus far I have been fucking sluts who knew they were sluts and never tried to fuck with it.I have merely replied "Ok" to these diatribes, or ignored them entirely (and boy does that send her hamster into overdrive). So experienced TRPers, is this just a stonewall until close situation? Or do I need to run longer game to cultivate this plate for the long(er) term?