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[–]IntrepidFoot 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
the PUA answer is to make assumptions and cold reads etc.
However, your result WILL be the same if you are talking too a girl who isn't interested/doesn't want to talk back no matter what tips and tricks you try (cold reads, assumptions, statements etc)
Julien proved that interview mode is fine. It's just that nothing will work on a girl who isn't interested/attracted and doesn't really want to engage you. A convo has to be a 2-way thing for it to work. It's likely not your fault. When you open a girl who is into you, it won't seem to hard
[–]tfo1939[S] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does this also apply to talking with regular people and trying to make friends, both guys and girls?
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[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What a Pick Up Artist would do. I.e. a guy who's good with women.
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are ways to keep a conversation going but it's also cool to let things go quiet at times.
Either way, talking or chilling, what makes it good or bad is how you feel in your body. If you feel good being with the other person, silent or talking, and you convey that vibe to them, then you will have an enjoyable interaction.
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
Here's some Beginner Material
[–]brownhoosierboy 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to be the same way. One thing which has really helped me is to just become comfortable with the silence (it's natural). To make more conversation, you need to have a rich conversation to start with. No one word responses (this is a killer). If you're really against the corner and need more material just observe your surroundings and voice an opinion.
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